I’m worried that our Valentine’s Day night of romance will go limpFebruary 10, 2019
DEAR DEIDRE: I WANT this Valentine’s Day to be really special and I’ve booked a meal and a hotel, but it’s just going to be a disaster if I can’t perform.
I’m a guy of 32 and my girlfriend is 29. She’s my first real girlfriend but she’s had two serious boyfriends before. It took a while for me to do anything sexual with her.
I want our Valentine’s Day date to be amazing, but I’m so worried I won’t be able to perform[/caption]
It’s been fine when we’ve had oral sex but I lose my erection every time we try to have full sex.
She says it’s OK, but I know it isn’t. I want her to feel desired.
I so want our first Valentine’s Day together to be memorable but I think it may be memorable for all the wrong reasons.
I wondered about buying some blue pills online but worry they may not be the real thing.
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DEIDRE SAYS: Pills aren’t the answer for simple performance anxiety like yours. Spend as long as feels good to you both on foreplay, only having intercourse when you are both ready.
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Don’t drink too much as this can hamper your performance, but have a wonderful Valentine’s night.
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