We can’t get pregnant and we have been trying for five years

We can’t get pregnant and we have been trying for five years

December 7, 2018 0 By Today news

DEAR DEIDRE: FOR more than five years my husband and I have been trying for children. I am so worried we may never be able to have them.

He is 30 and I am 27. We are having tests to find out what the problem might be.

We have tried everything to get pregnant

People tell me IVF would be the answer but I have a child already from a previous relationship so I don’t think I would qualify.

I get so down about it every month when I discover I am not pregnant after all.

We would so like to have a baby of our own.

DEIDRE SAYS: Get the test results then talk to your doctor again and ask if you can be referred to a fertility clinic.

Don’t assume that you would not fulfil the criteria – and there may be treatment for one or both of you that would make the difference without going down the IVF road.

My e-leaflet Want To Have A Baby? explains how to give yourselves the best chance of a pregnancy.

Also, talk to Fertility Network UK (fertilitynetworkuk.org, 01424 732 361).

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