My husband died six months ago but I have already fallen head over heels for someone else

My husband died six months ago but I have already fallen head over heels for someone else

December 7, 2018 0 By Today news

DEAR DEIDRE: IT has been just six months since my husband died from a heart attack – but I have fallen in love again.

I’m 41 and a mum to two girls aged 16 and 13. I met this guy at a mutual friend’s engagement party.

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I met a new guy at a party and we hit it off
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We really hit it off and exchanged numbers. We have met a few times as friends but I’d like more and he’s said he feels the same.

He is 36 and divorced. He is amazing with my girls. I have seen them smile like they used to before their dad died. They have even said they miss him when he isn’t around. I miss him too.

My sister has commented on how well I’m doing. I’m so worried about what other people will say, though.

My husband’s parents have been very prickly since his death.

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DEIDRE SAYS: It is great you have found love again. You have no need to feel guilty but don’t rush. Give it at least a year and see him as a friend for now.


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