I want to find a new man to have sex with as my husband only lasts a minute in bedDecember 7, 2018
DEAR DEIDRE: I GET sex once a month if I am lucky. It lasts about a minute and is totally boring.
I feel like looking for a new man but we’ve been married for 12 years. We are both 36 but I see this as far from old and there should be more physical pleasure going on.
He is a good man, kind and considerate but at this rate it won’t even be a once-a-month let-down. There’ll be nothing.
DEIDRE SAYS: Does he need a medical check-up? If you’re sure it’s not a health issue, he probably he feels awful he climaxes so quickly and that you get so disappointed.
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