Gym pal wants me to join his wife for a threesome

Gym pal wants me to join his wife for a threesome

December 7, 2018 0 By Today news

DEAR DEIDRE: A LAD I met at the gym has been sending me pictures of his wife and suggesting we have a threesome.

At first he talked about his wife with affection, then things changed.

He started sending me sexy pictures of her and ­commenting on how beautiful she is.

I’ve been invited to have a threesome
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She is attractive but I am happily married. I am 40 and my wife is 36.

He told me about her sexual preferences and what he would like me to do to her.

He is now messaging me almost every night and sending me pictures of her with other guys.

I don’t know if they are swingers or just sexually curious.

DEIDRE SAYS: He might get off on the build-up as much as the threesomes but keep your distance.

Don’t respond and avoid getting into con­versations with him so he cannot draw you in.

If you have a happy marriage, you have a lot to lose.


Think what an opportunity for blackmail it would give this guy if you went along with his suggestions.

Pictures of you with his wife could spread far and wide – and that includes to your wife.


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