DEAR DEIDRE: I SEE couples together everywhere and wonder why that can’t be me. I don’t have the confidence to talk to women and ask them out.
I’m a 56-year-old guy. I was married for six years but the marriage ended 20 years ago.
All the dates I have been on since have been fixed up by my friends. I’ve been to clubs for divorcees and on dating sites but nothing works.
One woman told me the only reason she wanted to be with me was to give her kids a stable upbringing.
I’m so lonely. What am I doing wrong?
Caught my girl in bed with another man… then he did something I didn't expect
SEX WITH SISTER
I had sex with my sister and now we are having a full-on relationship
My girl's wild step-sister seduced me in toilets and I'm disgusted with myself
My brother-in-law is my daughter's real father… and my husband has no idea
More, more, more!
Hot romps with sex-on-legs housemate always leaves me wanting more
Family are furious over my hot sex with brother's sister in law
I had hot sex with my 53-year-old mum-in-law while my wife was on life support
I've been bedding my 'uncle' and now his son is blackmailing me into having sex
Love my girlfriend, but find I get more pleasure from porn than sex with her
I had hot sex at Glastonbury… but I was the 20th guy she'd bedded that weekend
DEIDRE SAYS: You are probably giving off an air of neediness.
Focus on the women you meet, not your own needs. Ask them about themselves, their day, care about what they think and feel, show interest in their chat and their problems.
People love being asked about themselves, will enjoy the conversation and you don’t have to impress.
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